I've lost my faith in Love Almighty.

It's not about losing my faith towards the feeling or it's greatness. I've lost my faith towards its sovereignty. It just doesn't conquer all.

And that has lead me to think how people get together, what makes them want to be together, what draws them to be together? Lust, loneliness or maybe luck?
If love is game based on luck my life will be full of heartbreaks, unless I get really good good luck charm from somewhere. I've always been unlucky in games and draws, and misguided by the thought of lucky in draws, unlucky in love.

If love is not a game or based on luck what's the secret? What's the mix of success?