Monday 29 September 2008

O.o

From tomorrow I have a good reason to slack from blogging: I have signed a job contract today starting from tomorrow.

This week is light, only two days, but from next week forward it's regular working week with early mornings and varying hours (because I am doing inventories and the time spent depends on the size of the store).
The wage is quite good, 10€/h + possible increase for a job well done, and days off are negotiable so I can take time off to go to see Mr. Wonderful when I feel like it and when it's financially possible.

I admit having difficulties to believe that it was this easy, as they just called me six hours ago for the first time and I signed the contract over an hour ago... The reality will sink in next week, I guess.

I just hope it doesn't look better than it is.

Trying to rotate and dangers of chatting with stitching friends


It has been a while since I rotated last time and I decided it's time to try it again as I desperately want to stitch both my own and others' designs and I really need some change every now and then - and fact is that I have way too many SALs etc. on the go.

So, let's see:

    Monday: Models
    Tuesday: Models
    Wednesday: Free choice/ after 6th of October: EMS Rose Sampler SAL
    Thursday: Models
    Friday: Free choice
    Saturday: The Spanish Sampler
    Sunday: Flashes of Gold

Ooops

We had a staff chat at EMS yesterday, I wanted to show one design I was talking of and went to 1-2-3 Stitch! to find it... I also find so much I want!

Sunday 28 September 2008

A Happy Dance! O.o


I am shocked.

This is yet another part of the complimentary design series of stitcher's addictions and I will publish it in some of these days, when I am inspired enough to prepare the file it is now available for download at Periphaeria Designs.

Tidbits:

  • Design: Stitch-A-Long Addicts Anonymous
  • Designer: Lady Periphaeria of Periphaeria Designs
  • Fabric: 32 count unknown Belfast linen from Silkweaver.
  • Floss: Anchor 1206
Even though Addicts and Anonymous are slightly misplaced (I didn't spot the misplaced Addicts before I was half done with Anonymous and with Anonymous I had already frogged the A once and when I noticed the other error I just decided to leave it) I am very happy with the outcome even though I wasn't completely sure about my colour choices when I started stitching this earlied today (well, if the design is amazing you can't ruin with bad colour choices, can you? ).

Life in general

I haven't been feeling very good lately, for various reasons like being very short of cash and therefore not eating very well, getting used to lower dose of sertraline (I am on 100mg now) and missing Mr.Wonderful.

Money: I have been unemployed from the beginning of August and I am still waiting for the first allowance payment from SII - I should get the money in next week if all goes well and then I can apply for the rest of the money SII owes me, after that I hope to actually have enough money to buy some new clothes and stock some food items for November (so we can hide in bed whole time *evil grin*).

Mr.Wonderful: is slaving his (gorgeous) a** off, working 7 days a week to get the assignment done in time (if they don't get everything done on time they have to stay there longer until everything is done) and living in a hotel without internet connection so he has no opportunity to send me emails in our regular pace (which is daily). In addition to that the phone lines in $country suck so even he does call to me we can't talk too much because of the lousy line - but at least I can hear his voice, that is what makes me go on - and the hope of getting him here when he returns from Africa (if he works seven weeks seven days a week he should be able to get two weeks off as he plans).

So, everything is basically fine, but I am just suffering from withdrawals of money and Mr. Wonderful.

Tuesday 23 September 2008

Scream baby, scream!


It came! O.o

It being Just Nan's Scream House. What surprises me is that it didn't end up in customs as its value is way over the safe limit, but I don't mind it, really.

Now what I need is some extra time, like 50 hour days...

Those little things indeed are candies and certain greedy myself already ate them all - I can tell you that they tasted great.

Here we go again...


Shots Fired at College, Police Fear "Many Dead"

(Ref: Jokela)

Monday 22 September 2008

Stitch-A-Thon


This is what I had when I started stitching in Friday:

And this is what I have now:

Less progress than I anticipated, but on the other hand I missed most of Friday because my ovaries tried to explode out of me and also because I am addicted to World of Blood RPGs at Facebook. (By the way, if you are not aware of it yet, Periphaeria Designs has its own Facebook page so you can announce your PD addiction!)

Nevertheless, progress!

And yet another must have

Krazy Kitties

Sunday 21 September 2008

Sunday Afternoon Poses


If she were a human she would have become a model, I guess, as she posed on my request. o.O

And a bit earlier Masa was enjoying "Granny's" applesauce on a slice of pancake:


Saturday 20 September 2008

TSS progress


Due life (read: Mr.Wonderful (and running around Metropolitan area in interviews and writing applications)) and health issues I am badly behind with the Spanish Sampler MSAL, but I am slowly getting there (though I should be stitching models and not this... AAARGH!).

The more I stitch this the more I like the design. Stitching the design really makes the difference compared to previews.

It's Stitch-A-Thon weekend so I'll head back stitching Loy Krathong, we'll see next time when it's time to post my SAT achievements.

Tuesday 16 September 2008

Time's running...


...and so am I.
It was a busy day: I had an interview, I had to renew my job application at employment services - just to hear that even though I had told them in July that I am working from 16th of July to 1st of August that hadn't been noted and my status was still "at work"... and this affects to my financial situation because SII won't pay me before employment services fix my status and they couldn't fix it today as they have changed their system and the officials are available for meetings only between 9-10.30 ... I love bureaucrasy - and in between I managed to spend three hours sitting and getting bored and got a STD check done (not that I have any doubts of having anything, but we decided to get the checks done before we meet again (in November if everything goes well (i.e. if he gets time off)!)) - three hours because for some reason they didn't take patients in for almost two hours between 11:00 and 13:00. But now it's done and I can go and get the results next week.

I have another interview tomorrow and one in Thursday after a recruiting event where I am also planning to go. I am obviously keeping myself occupied while Mr.Wonderful is traveling.

"And why are you having interviews, didn't you get a job?", you may ask... I did "get" a job, but since then neither the agency or I haven't heard from the company and I have decided to continue my search.

And I haven't been stitching because my shoulder has been acting up: at its worst I could barely move my arm, now it's getting better, slowly, but it does get tired and sore easily - and I get bored, bored, bored.
And because I am bored I have difficulties to fall asleep - though, last night Mr.Wonderful called me and after the call, after me humming insanely for a while, I just dozed off and slept like a baby. This just proves something I noticed when Mr.Wonderful was here: I sleep much better when he's around, his voice in particular is very soothing (you know, one of those people who you could just listen for hours).

But, lady needs to eat to stay fit, so, until next time.

Saturday 13 September 2008

The Man in my life


I am not quite sure which I should blame for not gushing about Mr.Wonderful all the time: superstition or the fact that I feel very peaceful nowadays. Or maybe it's partly both, probably I am just afraid somewhere deep in me that if I gush about him I invite bad luck and eventually lose my lovely state of mind.

And I really like this state of mind I am at: I feel balanced and hopeful. First time in long, long time I actually have a feeling of having a future and life seems easy, comfortable.
Though, fact is that we haven't had time to have real hardships (we have only knew each other since middle of July), but in my opinion living on opposite sides of Europe is a hardship - even though long distance relationship also has its advantages as we are able to appreciate the time we spend together more and we learn to communicate better as we base our communication mostly on emails.
Basically we are quite good communicators, but some extra practise never hurt anyone.

What really has surprised me is that this whole relationship feels so easy. I am not used to that so it is somewhat of a cultural shock, but I am not complaining, on the contrary. It just is difficult to understand that a relationship can actually be easy. o.O

Let me rephrase: this relationship is easy for both of us, but I am quite sure there's at least one person in my immediate family who will very likely have issues with it and therefore cause stress to me: our father. (Though, if so it's not relationship induced, it will be stupidity induced...)
Our father does know that he's British (by birth), but he may not have realized from my avatar in our family's forum (cut of our eyes from one couple picture we took before Mr.Wonderful left) that he's a man of colour (he's of Afro-Caribbean origin) and when our father realizes that... I am prepared to hear all kinds of [nasty word] from him when it eventually dawns on him.
Other possibility is that our father has realized that Mr.Wonderful is somewhat () darker than I am, but he (our father) may not realize that our relationship is serious (let me see: we love each other, it is obvious for both of us that we will get married some day, we are planning to move together soon-ish (before 2010), we are talking of kids etc. - all the things every couple is talking about after knowing each other barely two months ) despite the distance.
And when he does realize that we are intending to stay together and have that normal setting called a family he may go berzerk (I am rather surprised if he doesn't - and I know I wouldn't be the only surprised one) and let some huge, ugly frogs out of his mouth. (Though I doubt there is not enough man in our father to say what he thinks directly to Mr.Wonderful... big, muscular men, like Mr. Wonderful, tend to be scary.)

Luckily I know that those who matter wouldn't mind even if he was from Mars, had googly eyes and five legs - as long as he keeps me happy and treats me well.
It just boggles my mind how some people can be as ignorant as our father (I reserve the right to say that based on previous experiences with him): it's just pigment, not an illness.

Honestly speaking my father seems to be great inventing reasons why my partner isn't "suitable" regardless how perfect son-in-law they'd make, so it's not all about the skin... but it will give him "good" reason to dislike my SO.
But, he should also know that if he doesn't accept my better half he won't accept our kids either and therefore his changes to meet his grandkids from my side aren't very good... Though I am not quite sure is that an issue to him, as anyway, if Mr.Wonderful and I have children they are mixed and I am, unfortunately, quite sure that it's one of the things why he (our father) has had issues with my partners during last few years.

In the end it's not a problem as such. We can simply avoid dealing with him. What saddens me is that if my father is still idiot in that way he takes away the only grandfather our children will have - but I am not willing to be in good terms with him just because I want our children have grandfather: I rather stay and keep the kids away from him than give our kids grandfather who despises their father because of his ethnicity - and therefore our kids.

Tuesday 9 September 2008

Monopoly SAL is now kitted


Flosses and the replacement fabric for Monopoly SAL came today so I am technically ready to start - technically as I am way behind my model stitching and I have to get caught with it before starting.
While I was shopping for the flosses I also decided to buy few nice variegated ones just in case...

The original pattern is charted for DMC but I made an Anchor conversion to be able to avoid using DMC. Don't you just love the colours?

As you know, I justified again...

Few days ago I noticed that I had accidentally received two copies of 1993 Schooler Santa and I soon invented a cunning plan: I suggested my mother that she could learn to stitch using that pattern as it is rather easy and has Santa on it (you know my mother's love for them). I even promised to "kit" it for her.
Luckily I have some 18 count aida in case she finds evenweave too difficult to begin with so I can provide her some selection regarding the fabrics.

Let the converting begin!

Monday 8 September 2008

My ABC


I found this from Anne´s blog and as she tagged all the willing people I decided to do this.

Gift for a friend


Friend suffered a great loss earlier this year and we, group of her friends organized a parcel of stitched items, and other kinds of gifts, to show our support. The basic idea was to stitch, if you had time, an angel with reference to your username and/or personality, some of us ended up stitching something else, but still within the "guidelines" we had.
This is what I did.

Info:

  • Designer: Chessie & Me
  • Design: Guardian Chessie
  • Published in: The Just CrossStitch Christmas Ornaments 10th Anniversary Collection
  • Fabric: 32 count Wild Raspberry linen
  • Changes: Flosses are improvised and the design doesn't have those little devil horns my version does (the horns come from my username).

I learned in Friday that you never should browse through model stitchers' online photo albums as you end up having loads of new must haves.

Long-distance relatonship with varying distance

Since Mr. Wonderful was here I have knew that he's going on a business trip in September, which was estimated to be one month. He got the confrimation yesterday and he'll be touring Africa, not four, but seven weeks.

I am sure he's safe there, it's not his first time and he kind of blends in anyway, but as it means that he is on the road all the time our communication may get abit erratic, even he has promised to try to keep our regular communication pace (and his employer pays him call allowance so he can stay in touch with his family (in this case me)), which will be very difficult for me (both of us, I dare to say). Though, if all goes well he'll be coming here to see me after he returns, and that is something we are both eagerly waiting.
The gap between will be only about three months, but it's already feeling like forever. It has been too long since we saw each other and still I know that he left only 2½ weeks ago. *sigh*

But the day when he returns here will be simply wonderful. The day when he comes, as I already seem to think, back home to me.

Friday 5 September 2008

It's starting to sound more an more like a bad soap opera... (Friends Only)


... not that there was such thing as a good soap opera.

As you know my brother is divorcing (from what I know they can actually be divorced by now, the consideration period has, in my opinion, ended some time ago) from his wife. And everything we thought has proven to be true - and then some more.

Since my brother moved out following things have happened:

  • SIL had promised to take kids with her when she went to enjoy Midsummer... but my brother received a phone call from SIL when she had packed the kids (all four) into car and SIL announced that she won't take their son with her.
    In other words she disowned her own child. Which, in my not so humble opinion, is a disgrace.
  • SIL has been drinking heavily ever since my brother moved out.
  • There has been six complaints about mistreating of children to social services regarding SIL: only two of them are by my brother. This implies that even other people are worried...
  • SIL is unable to take care of her daughters (their son lives with my brother, who, as far as I know, has whole custody for the boy): we heard that their eldest (who's not even eleven yet) has been taking care of her siblings. She has been the one who has taken care of the hygiene of the youngest ones and the kids have had to steal food to be fed. In addition to this the house is a real mess.
  • Some time ago the girls called to my brother in one night because they were afraid: turns out that mommy was drinking, there was also other people in the house, and my brother called police and social services. When the police came they tested SIL with alcometer: she was drunk, her blood alcohol levels were close to 2 &permil - the kids would have been taken into custody if there had been any place to take them to (my brother lives on the other side of the country at current as he had to "escape" the whole mess to protect my nephew (poor kid has asthma and it doesn't like the stress at all) so he couldn't take them). So, cops emptied the house and ordered SIL to sleep herself sober.

    Her mother claims she isn't an alcoholic - well, maybe not in her mother's opinion as she is an alcoholic herself.

  • Girls and SIL are now customers of social services, which doesn't bode good for SIL's maternal rights in future - I really hope my brother could get the kids. Based on everything he has been single father of four minors and one adult (SIL) so he could manage with all the kids - as his SO is good with the kids, we know.
In addition to this we have to keep our brother's SO's identity secret from SIL as brother's SO is... our cousin. At least we know the family already!
And honestly, the kids seem to like her and she's quite good handling them, so it's all good.

And yesterday I heard something which really stunned me... SIL is in relationship with my first boyfriend!

Let me tell few things about the issue of my ex (I am not bitter, these are unfortunate facts (I'm just happy M. left me back in... 1996)):

  • He's really not the brightest bulb. (You know, really.)
  • He's very unyielding, intolerant and he has the hidden side of uncontrolled rage. (During the six months we were together he was physically abusive once, not much, but still. (The story behind it is that when I was 16 I wasn't over my childhood, and in addition to that I have VERY overactive sense of self-protection, so one day he came into a room I thought was empty (I was facing the window, doing something) and he scared me. I kicked him, instinctually, which, of course means that I didn't mean it, I was just so used to be prepared to protect myself back then. And that is when he got mad, even I explained the issue to him, even he know about my past... he didn't leave any marks, so maybe we can't say he was physically abusive, but the situation was very threatening.)
  • He's LOUSY lover and in addition to that not that well equipped - they say that size does not matter... it does when man is equipped poorly enough... (Admittedly it's handy when the said guy is the one who takes your virginity: hurts less. *grin*)
    He also thinks that woman should give him oral sex, but he won't give it back because female genitalia is dirty... oh, yeah.
  • He is either still living at home (you know, with his mother) or has only recently moved on his own: he's 34.
  • Personal hygiene is completely unbeknownst aspect to him. (Ok, he does brush his teeth daily, but that's all... I had to teach him to use deodorant back in stone age.)
And I remember my SIL thinking that he is actually rather pitiful excuse of a man. That is when she was "happily" married to my brother.
In addition to this I know that M. hasn't dated before this since he left me, 12 years ago, so I think he's just plain desperate - as I think is she as I can't see any other reason for her mind to change that fast (as I know she knows all the listed things about him).

Maybe they deserve each other...

Anyway, what else can I say that the happenings of late make life sound like a soap opera. I am just waiting to find out that Mr. Wonderful is actually related to us (not very likely though, he's Brit with afro-caribbean roots, but you never know..).

But, at least you can't say that life has been boring lately...

Though shalt not help thy fellow stitcher


Thursday 4 September 2008

WIP


I have taken my own design, Stash Addicts Anonymous as my "late evening when my brains are frozen" project, and even though I usually stitch only letter or two at time it is progress. The process is enjoyable because of the design and the floss I chose for the text: it is one of those Sassa Lynne threads Susan sent me last year and it's really cheery without being too loud.

The pink is from GAST's Loose Thread bag, I guess, or then it is Six Strand Sweets (I have my few SSS leftovers in same box with LT bag so I am not quite sure) and the fabric is hand-dyed opalescent Murano from my own dye pots.

I am recovering from the cold so I decided to take a break from official stitching and stitch an ornament for Halloween Ornament Exchange at EMS Cross Stitch Board (less surprisingly I ended up with one of my own designs from Halloween Ornaments set).
I have also signed up for The Pumpkin Patch Exchange at SBEBB and I have already decided the design, but as the deadline is in October I won't hurry with it, yet.

By the way, one of the reasons why I love Mr. Wonderful

He called me today just to inform me that his email will be late today - and of course to hear my voice and say those three important words.
I think he's a keeper as he believes in little things like letting your SO know if you can't stay in your normal schedule.

Wednesday 3 September 2008

A stitch in time...


A stitch in time wins gold for China's female athletes

By Zhao Rui
China daily Staff Writer

Confidence, determination, a strong mind, all these things have helped fuel China's dominating women's athletes at the Beijing Olympics. But there is something else behind the medals most fans might not be able to see: embroidery.

Stitch work may have little to do with winning gold medals, but the fact that six different Chinese gold medalists count it among their top spare-time hobbies, the needle and thread bears consideration as a factor behind the success of some of China's newest national heroes.

So why would a top-level athlete look to a craft requiring so much patience and concentration to pass the time?

"Satisfaction," said weightlifter Liu Chunhong, who won the women's -62kg gold medal on Wednesday. "It provides great satisfaction and excitement when you finish an embroidery. I cannot tell you how much it satisfies me; you will understand when you do it yourself.

"You probably spend four or five days finishing it, then you look at it and you feel you are the best in the world.

"I have a pillow to finish after I'm done with the Olympic competition."

Liu, who also happens to be one of the best weightlifters in the world having broken five world records on her way to gold, is not alone in her love for embroidery on the weightlifting team: Chen Xiexia, who won China's first gold in Beijing in the women's -48kg, and Chen Yanqing, a -58kg gold medalist, are also enthusiastic stitchers.

It's a hobby popular throughout China's Olympic teams. Diving queens Guo Jingjing and Wu Minxia, 3m springboard gold medalists, are both known for their embroidery, while 25m-pistol winner Chen Ying is just getting into stitch work.

Several athletes who have yet to win gold are stitchers too, including badminton singles defending champion Zhang Ning, women's basketballers Sui Feifei and Bian Lan, and triathlete Xing Lin. Members of the canoeing and athletics teams are known to be embroidery enthusiasts as well.

The embroidery these athletes fancy is not the traditional Chinese, silk-thread kind. The "cross-stitch" technique is less demanding, but the rewards are nearly as big.

Cross-stitch originated in Europe and was improved upon by South Koreans, who added some cartoonish elements and made it a popular hobby among Chinese school girls.

"The stitch brings us a lot of fun," Chen said. "People think we must live an exciting life and be in the spotlight all the time, but actually an athlete's life is very boring. We live in the training base, wake up and go to the shooting range, then I come back and sleep. That's my life.

"But stitch gives us something to look forward to after training. You do it needle by needle and maybe after three or four days, you can see a cute piece of work. I simply love it."

China boasts one of the most powerful sports regimes in the world, as well as one of the longest training seasons. Its basketball team started Olympic closed-door training in March and the shooting squad began in January.

Chinese coaches did not approve of cross-stitch at first, but they have gradually come to accept it.

"I didn't know what it was at the very beginning, I just thought it was a waste of time," said weightlifting coach Chen Wenbin. "But all my women lifters love it. They train really hard, so I finally said 'OK, do it', and now cross-stitch has become a part of the team."

There is no such universal hobby for China's male athletes, however. Some are avid computer gamers, including basketball superstar Yao Ming, who is said to be an expert at the first-person shooter "Counter-Strike". 110m hurdling defending champion Liu Xiang has been caught at KTV clubs. Other music fans include - 69kg weightlifting gold medalist Liao Hui, who plays harp, and -62kg champion Zhang Xiangxiang who likes to strum a guitar after training.

(Source: China Daily; A stitch in time wins gold for China's female athletes)

Yearbook yourself!


I came upon this site at former school mate's Facebook profile: Yearbookyourself.com.

And how do I look like..? Click on the image to see them all.

That 'fro looks actually quite good on me.

Tuesday 2 September 2008

The best cure for cold is...


...new stash, of course. (And some emailed sweetness from mr. Wonferful.)


The reason for this order was the fabric for the Monopoly SAL.

But, when I went through the order I noticed that the count is wrong as I had ordered 32 count and not 28 count, and after I had confirmed it with a ruler, I took a picture of both of the fabric and the receipt and emailed 1-2-3 Stitch!... Two hours later they emailed me and promised to send the correct fabric, which is the same colour, but in 32 count.
This means that I got 27'' x 36'' cut of 28 count Star Sapphire Jobelan for free.

That's what I call customer service.